Perhaps you read a different article than the one I wrote. I clearly, more than once, acknowledge the existence of real narcissists who do real harm. It's where I start the article.

I also note that you can have both ADHD and narcissism. I mention that narcissism exists on a spectrum, and small amounts of it can be healthy.

Overuse and inappropriate use of the term narcissism can exist in the same world where real narcissists endanger and harm the lives of others.