You have a few good points, but I believe that this is fundamentally a false equivalency. I'm going to oversimplify here, and we can certainfly find counterexaples, but the right is attacking people for who they are (LGBTQ, women, POC) and disguising their attack by pretending it is an attack on the "opinions" of the woke left. The left is condemning people for their beliefs (racism, sexism, homophobia, Trumpism) which are chosen, and not for inherent and immutable characteristics of those people.